Lured
by the promise of money and training, they end up as domestic workers
who endure abuse and beatings at the hands of their masters.
She went to Delhi dreaming of a new start, of escape from a life of
poverty and hardship. Yet when she arrived, Sushma Kumari quickly
realised she had been tricked. Far from being trained in the skills of
acupuncture, for two years she was forced to work as an unpaid domestic
help in the home of the “doctor” who was supposed to be teaching her.
She toiled from five in the morning till midnight, seven days a week.
She was abused and mistreated. Almost certainly she was brought to
Delhi by a professional trafficker who, beyond doubt, knew she would
live the life of a slave.
For a woman who has the right to burn with anger, Sushma talks in
little more than a whisper. “I really wanted to go home but I was not
allowed to talk to my father,” she says. “I felt desperate, cheated.”
Her story is a journey to the dark side of the new India, away from the
tales of soaring economic growth and gleaming fashion malls, of
Western-style coffee-shops filled with a newly wealthy class. The two
are surely connected; chief among the reasons for the growing demand
for young, poor women from places like Jharkhand, Chhattisgarh, West
Bengal and other desperately poor states to come to toil in India’s
growing metropolitan centres, is that a new generation of professional
women entering the workforce no longer have the time or inclination for
household chores. Human traffickers fill the gap.
And in a way, Sushma had been drawn by the promises of the New India.
After she was forced to leave school early because the family were so
poor, her father learnt, through an acquaintance, of an acupuncturist
in Delhi looking for a trainee. A middle-man arranged that Sushma could
be that person.
When we left the village, we were taken to another village for a month
and then brought to Delhi. In the first weeks there was some informal
training but it became obvious we were there to work as domestic
servants,” she recalls. “After that, we just had to work. When my
father called I was told to say everything was fine and that I was
doing well.”
The reality was quite different. Beaten and abused, accused of stealing
and worked to the bone, Sushma wanted to escape but did not know how.
She suffered for two years before learning, through another domestic
worker, of an organisation that could help. Then she ran away.
The treatment of India’s domestic workers is a topic the establishment
rarely addresses. Relied upon to cook, clean, shop, wash and iron
clothes and even nanny children, they become indispensable for many
families. Yet while some employers treat them well, many are remarkably
cruel. Stories of abuse abound. Last month, a badly beaten 13-year-old
girl was rescued from the home of a professional couple in Gurgaon,
Delhi’s hi-tech satellite city. The couple told the police that they
beat the child to get rid of their stress.
The charity Sushma ran to for help is called Nirmana. Established 12
years ago, the group uses trained overseas volunteers from a partner
organisation, Voluntary Services Overseas. One of the volunteers
working with Nirmana is 25-year-old Serena O’Sullivan. She worked for a
FTSE 100 company for a year after leaving university but decided she
wanted to do something more fulfilling. After working for several
charities, she became convinced that governments in poor countries
needed to be pressed to include the poorest people in their programmes.
“It led me to accept a VSO placement in India with Nirmana. I am able
to share my skills in communications and advocacy, but also spend time
with rescued workers and help to get their voices heard at a national
and international level.
“It is very hard to reconcile your own life and those of the people
here. You hear the worst stories you can imagine. You wonder how one
person can treat another person like that,” she says. “It is as if some
people here think that others are not deserving of the same rights.”
The scale of the problem Nirmana is trying to deal with is vast. A full
40 per cent of the people involved in domestic work are below the age
of 14. And the number of people being trafficked is growing. The
agencies which place them are unregulated and unsupervised. But slowly
the country is being forced for the first time to consider the problem.
The work of Nirmana and VSO is one factor. Another has been the
publication of Aravind Adiga’s novel, White Tiger, which won this
year’s Booker Prize with its account of the abuse and mistreatment of
servants. Some abused servants are summoning the courage to speak out.
One such is 17-year-old Meena Tirki. Meena says she is 17 but she could
be younger. Though she tries to smile as she tells her story, her face
is impossibly sad. And with good reason. The eldest of four girls from
a village near Siliguri, Meena’s family could never afford to send her
to school. Earlier this year, an agent went to her village looking for
girls who wanted to work in Delhi.
Under pressure from her stepmother, Meena agreed. Placed with a family
in east Delhi, Meena found herself sleeping on the roof during the
blistering summer, rising at 5 am to begin a day of exhausting labour.
The family said they would not pay her and the abuse began almost
immediately. “The husband would hit me. He would accuse me of not
working,” she says. But Meena heard about Nirmana and she also ran.
With the help of Nirmana, Meena and Sushma have since been placed with
other families in Delhi where they are working as domestic helpers. It
would be a lie to say their stories have a saccharine-sweet ending.
While they are now being paid, they receive only a pittance and they
still work gruelling hours. But there is the vaguest flicker of hope.
Sushma has been attending an open school in Delhi and hopes to complete
her exams come April. She says, “Then I will decide whether to go home
or not.” She has begun to take control of her life.
The lot of the poor in Bangladesh is no different. If you could see
their faces, you would weep. If you could see how young and frightened
they look as they recount in whispers what happened to them, you would
be horrified. And yet you would also be amazed by their bravery. Amazed
that these two teenage girls — both disabled and both having been raped
by people they knew – can muster the courage to speak out. They have
chosen not to be silent.
Diljahan is 16 and has a learning disability. Her mother and father are
dead and she lives in a village near the northern Bangladeshi town of
Rangpur with her grandfather, a wiry, good-natured man. Four years ago
she was sexually assaulted by an uncle when her grandfather had gone to
the market and she was left alone in the house.
“I asked him, ‘Why are you doing this, uncle?’” says Diljahan. “He told
me that if I told anyone about what had happened he would kill me. Five
times he assaulted me in the house. I did not tell anyone because I was
too scared.”
Several months later, a female relative discovered the child was
pregnant and demanded an explanation. The grandfather and other family
members confronted the uncle, who fled from the authorities. Meanwhile,
13 weeks into her pregnancy, Diljahan miscarried.
Of all the marginalised and oppressed groups in Bangladesh, few are
more vulnerable than disabled people. A combination of discrimination
and a woeful lack of organised help from the authorities means that
mentally and physically disabled people have only their families to
care for them. And yet the disability rights movements in Bangladesh
are growing. In recent years there has been a gradual shift.
Organisations have started to establish self-help groups to which
disabled people can look for help. And they have started to use the law
to defend the rights of the most vulnerable.
“At the moment we have 70 cases where we are providing legal aid. Most
of them are rape cases,” says Shakil Ahmed Khan, a Dhaka-based law
officer with Action on Disability and Development. He says disabled
people are often the victims of sexual assault. “The attackers think
that disabled people cannot defend themselves, that they will not
testify. They think they will not disclose what happened to them and
that they will not be able to afford to go to court.”
Hosna is also 16. She is bright but suffers from a physical disability
that has left the right side of her body – her upper body in particular
– hugely weakened. She has three sisters and two brothers and she sits
with her mother as she tells how she was attacked three and a half
years ago. She remembers the month, the day and the precise time when
she was attacked by her 26-year-old cousin.
“I was cutting grass for a goat, using a scythe. The cousin tried to
persuade me to go elsewhere to cut grass. I told him I did not want to.
I said I had enough grass where I was,” she says. “He then took my
scythe and threw it into the jungle and told me to go and collect it.
When I went to go and get it he came up behind and forcefully raped me.
I could not resist. My right side does not work. He just held me down
on one side. There was a witness and he chased the man away.”
Given the cultural pressures, the sense of shame, their fear and the
slow, bullock-cart pace of justice in Bangladesh, it would have perhaps
been easier for the two girls to have done nothing. But with the
support of their families and the backing of the National Disabled
Women’s Council they decided to confront the authorities with what
happened to them and demand action.
In Diljahan’s case, the uncle was arrested but released on bail. The
case is pending and the uncle still lives in the same village as the
teenager and she regularly sees him. Asked how that made her feel, she
replies, “I want to kill him.”
For Hosna, her decision to press charges resulted in the cousin being
arrested and detained for 18 months. Remarkably – but not necessarily
uniquely in south Asia – some officials suggested the cousin should
“make things right” by marrying the young woman. She and her mother
rejected this. The cousin has also now been released on bail but the
case is due to come to trial shortly. “I want justice,” says Hosna. Her
mother, Nur Banu, adds that others in their village once considered
them weak but now have respect for them.
The teenager says that some days she believes she has put what happened
behind her. As an indication of her intention to succeed and move on
with her life, Hosna’s mother tells of the painful, exhausting
four-hour journey her daughter makes every day to get to school. “I
thought that my daughter was not good at studies,” she says. “But the
teacher at the school said to me, ‘Your daughter is brilliant. You
should take care of her’.” When she says that, both mother and daughter
smile.
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